CHAPTER 30
The Training of Children*
that he may be his joy when he grows up.a
and boast of him among acquaintances.
and rejoice in him among his friends.
for he leaves after him one like himself,
and in death, without regret.
and one to repay his friends with kindness.
and will suffer heartache at every cry.
and a son left to himself grows up unruly.
indulge him, and he will bring you grief.
and in the end you will gnash your teeth.
and do not ignore his follies.
beat his sides while he is still young,
Lest he become stubborn and disobey you,
and leave you disconsolate.b
lest you be offended by his shamelessness.
Health and Cheerfulness*
than the rich with bodily ills.
and contentment of spirit than pearls.
and no happiness than a joyful heart.
everlasting sleep than constant illness.
are like food offerings placed before a tomb.* d
that can neither eat nor smell?
So it is with the one being punished by the Lord,
or torment yourself deliberately.e
and cheerfulness prolongs his days.
drive resentment far away from you;
For grief has killed many,f
and nothing is to be gained from resentment.
and anxiety brings on premature old age.
* [30:1–13] Sound discipline (which would include physical beating) and careful education of children correct self-indulgence and stubbornness, prevent remorse and humiliation, and bring to parents lasting joy and delight, prestige among friends, jealousy of enemies, perpetuation and vindication of themselves through their offspring (vv. 1–6). Lack of discipline and overindulgence of children bring sorrow and disappointment, terror and grief (vv. 7–13).
* [30:14–25] Health of mind and body and joy of heart Ben Sira judges to be more precious than wealth (vv. 14–16), whereas bitterness, constant illness, and affliction are more difficult to bear than death (vv. 17–20). Sadness, resentment, anxiety, envy, and anger shorten days; they should be dispelled by cheerfulness and gladness of heart, which help to prolong one’s days (vv. 21–25).
* [30:18] The saying ridicules the practice of putting food and drink on the tombs of the dead.
* [30:25(27)] Because of the dislocation of the Greek text, the numbering of this verse follows Ziegler’s edition. There are no verses 25–26.
a. [30:1] Prv 13:24; 19:18; 22:15; 23:13; 29:15; Heb 12:7.
b. [30:12] Sir 7:23; Prv 23:14.
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