CHAPTER 13
Caution Regarding Associates*
associate with scoundrels and you learn their ways.
or associate with anyone wealthier than you.
How can the clay pot go with the metal cauldron?
When they knock together, the pot will be smashed:
while the poor are wronged and beg forgiveness.
but when you are down and out they will abandon you.
but they will drain you dry without remorse.
and smile at you and raise your hopes;
they will speak kindly to you and say, “What do you need?”
and finally laugh at you.
Afterwards, when they see you, they will pass you by,
and shake their heads at you.
do not be like those who lack sense.
then they will urge you all the more.
but do not keep too far away lest you be regarded as an enemy.
do not trust their many words;
For by prolonged talk they will test you,
and though smiling they will probe you.
and will not refrain from injury or chains.
never to accompany lawless people.†
and we all love someone like ourselves.
and people associate with their own kind.
So the sinner with the righteous.a
Or peace between the rich and the poor?*
likewise the poor are feeding grounds for the rich.
and the poor are an abomination to the rich.
when the poor trip they are pushed down by friends.
though what they say is repugnant, it wins approval.
When the poor speak people say, “Come, come, speak up!”
though they are talking sense, they get no hearing.
their wisdom people extol to the clouds.
When the poor speak people say: “Who is that?”
If they stumble, people knock them down.b
but poverty is evil by the standards of the proud.
either for good or for evil.c
withdrawn and perplexed is the toiling schemer.
* [13:1–14:2] By means of various images, most of them unfavorable to the rich, Ben Sira indicates the practical impossibility of genuine and sincere companionship between the poor and the rich. He lays down a principle of associating with equals (13:6–19).
† [13:13] Other ancient texts read as v. 14:
If you hear these things in your sleep, wake up!
With your whole life, love the Lord
and call on him for your salvation.
* [13:18] The hostility between the dogs which guard the flocks (Jb 30:1) and the rapacious hyenas (Jer 12:9) is proverbial in Palestine.
* [13:24] Ben Sira allows that the rich can be virtuous—but with difficulty; cf. 31:1–11.
a. [13:17] 2 Cor 6:14–17.
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