CHAPTER 3
Responsibilities to Parents*
act accordingly, that you may be safe.
and confirms a mother’s authority over her sons.
and when they pray they are heard.
those who obey the Lord honor their mother.
and serve their parents as masters.
that all blessings may come to you.a
but a mother’s curse uproots the growing plant.b
for that is no glory to you!
they multiply sin who demean their mother.c
do not grieve him as long as he lives.d
do not revile him because you are in your prime.
it will serve as a sin offering—it will take lasting root.
like warmth upon frost it will melt away your sins.
those who provoke their mother are accursed by their Creator.e
Humility*
and you will be loved more than a giver of gifts.
and you will find mercy in the sight of God.† f
by the humble he is glorified.
do not reach into things that are hidden from you.g
what is hidden is not your concern.
when you have been shown more than you can understand.
evil imaginations lead them astray.
Docility*
without knowledge, wisdom is missing.
those who love danger will perish in it.
adding sin to sin is madness.
for they are offshoots of an evil plant.h
and the ear that listens to wisdom rejoices.
Alms for the Poor
so almsgiving atones for sins.i
should they stumble, they will find support.
* [3:1–16] Besides the virtues that must characterize our conduct toward God, special duties are enjoined, such as honor and respect toward parents, with corresponding blessings (vv. 1–9). By showing such respect especially to old and infirm parents (vv. 10–13), the sins of children are pardoned (vv. 14–15). Failure to honor father and mother is blasphemy and merits a curse from God (v. 16). Cf. Ex 20:12; Eph 6:2–3.
* [3:17–24] Humility gives you a true estimate of yourself (vv. 17–20; cf. 10:28), so that you will do what should be done, and avoid what is beyond your understanding and strength (vv. 21–23). Intellectual pride, however, leads you astray (v. 24). Ben Sira is perhaps warning his students against the perils of Greek philosophy.
† [3:18] Other ancient texts read as v. 19:
Many are lofty and famous,
but to the humble he reveals his plan.
* [3:25–29] The antidote for stubbornness is to be found in the search for knowledge and wisdom.
a. [3:8] Ex 20:12; Dt 5:16; Mt 15:4; 19:19; Mk 7:10; 10:19; Lk 18:20; Eph 6:2–3.
b. [3:9] Gn 27:27–29; 49:2–27.
e. [3:16] Prv 19:26; 30:11, 14, 17.
f. [3:18] Mt 23:12; Lk 1:52; 14:11; 18:14.
h. [3:28] Dt 32:32; Wis 12:10.
i. [3:30] Sir 7:32–36; 29:8–13; Dt 15:7–11; Tb 12:9; Dn 4:24.
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